Best of Dharma – Church of the Poisoned Mind


2015 brought all kind of questions about sexting, pornography and tying people up.  This is just one of many…

Dear Dharma,

My super religious boyfriend broke up with me because I wasn’t living up to his family’s standards of holiness. Everything between us was awesome and I had no issues plopping my butt into a church pew for an hour on Sundays to keep the in-laws happy. He tried to portray this wholesome facade, but boy was he a dirty devil at home – and we both loved it! In the end he had to make mom and dad happy, so he dumped my heathen ass and found a religious pancake of a girl from the boonies. She’s about 10 years younger than him, not all that attractive and a virgin – a total dream for his parents!

So you’d think that was it, but no! He is engaged to this holy bumpkin, taking marriage counselling at church – and texting me dirty almost every night.

Problem is… I miss his unholy ways and tend to respond to his texts, even though he will marry her soon.

What’s a girl to do?

Loving to Sin

Dear Sin,

What’s a girl to do? Well, a few things come to mind, the first being ummm… stop it?

Let me get this straight. The guy is in a happy relationship with you, all the while living a fake front with his parents. He then dumps you because he has no backbone and takes up a relationship with a girl that is giving only his parents a wet dream. He proposes marriage to her, goes to counselling in front of God and everyone and then sexts you late at night.


I do understand the thrill of wanting to play sex goddess, but come on, not with this guy. So you’re good enough to get off with, but not worth standing up to mom and dad for?  Is that really what you want in a man? This guy has a lot of character and none of it good…

I would advise you to remove yourself from this triangle – it’s going nowhere fast and I think you should count your blessings it worked out the way it did.  I also think we should say a prayer for this devil’s clueless fiancée.


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  • Emanon says:

    And I ran, I ran so far away.
    I just ran, I ran all night and day.
    I couldn’t get away….. fast enough!

    • Dharma says:

      Cuz it wasn’t bad enough that I’ve been humming Culture Club for the past couple of days… now this? 🙂

  • Jezebel says:

    He sounds like someone I dated in the past! So tempted to ask for his initals! Get.Away.NOW!!

  • dudley doright says:

    I agree she needs to leave him alone, her presence is tempting him from the true path. He is trying to get his life in order, but her texting is the work of the devil.

  • Ivana Coke says:

    ^^ Are you kidding me? He’s the one initiating things not her! Open your eyes man! Trying to get his life on track would mean actually being true to god. And I’m sorry, but sexting his ex-girlfriend at night is not being true to many people involved. This poor girl has been through enough, how could you blame this on her?

  • No says:

    What a f&cktart! He’s prob cheating on his wife already!

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