One Drunken Night



Dear Dharma,

One drunken night at a “toy” party I purchased something that vibrates and does wonderful things… Maybe too wonderful…!

I haven’t used it to its fullest potential because I’m scared it will “ruin me” for regular sex with men. Is this possible? Or can I… vibrate away?


The Rabbit

Dear Rabbit,

Okay, I gotta say.  I actually had to do some research on this one, opening myself up to a virus or two on my trusted computer.  Can’t wait to see what emails start showing up in my inbox now!

So, your question – can a “maybe too wonderful” vibrator ruin you for regular sex with men?

Probably not the answer you were looking for, but yeah!  It actually can.  Read this great article in Cosmo.  Enlightening and entertaining all at the same time.

To sum it up, if you don’t want to be enlightened or entertained by anyone other than Dharma – there can definitely be an addicting quality to using a vibrator on a regular basis, making it difficult to orgasm in any other way.

Because no human being can do exactly what a vibrator does – sorry guys!  I know you think you can, but…

You really should read the whole article for better context.

It’s not to say you need to throw out your latest purchase like she did in Cosmo, it’s just to say… moderation in all things, right?



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